Go and look at what the stores offer a woman our age for winter. On one side, smart little ankle boots with soles as smooth as a dinner plate, which look lovely in the window and skate on the first patch of ice. On the other, great heavy snow boots laced halfway up your shin, which grip like anything and make you look like you're headed into the backcountry when you're only going to the mailbox.
So you pick the smart ones, because you're stopping for coffee afterwards, and then you spend the whole walk staring at the ground. Or you let everyone else go and say you'll stay in and put the coffee on. I did both, for years.